October 12
I checked out of my capsule hotel bright and early to catch a train and bus to ibaraki airport. Oh i had my first anti-tattoo experience too in a bathhouse. I had heard from many that Japan's onsens were not tattoo friendly because of the cultural associations with the yakuza. I was in the middle of bathing when i saw many men staring at me...no it was not because they were impressed by my manhood! Soon after, a staff member approached me and said please leave...i said why and he said no tattoos allowed. Hrmmm....i even said no yakuza to deaf ears.
The trip to ibaraki was uneventful and i got there with time to spare. As i checked into Spring Airlines, I was told of the 15 kg weight limit and i was at 16. I then proceeded to stuff over 1 kg in my pockets...no im not just happy to see you, those are heavy locks in my pockets! I counted up my zen and managed to spend it all while leaving me 5 yens as souvenirs.
Onto China...about a 3 hour flight from Tokyo to Shanghai. The highlight of the flight was the group exercise led by the Spring Airline flight attendants. We did basic neck rolls and stretches to get our circulation going.
My old MBA friend, Fred, was due to pick me up. I was a bit worried that we wouldn't be able to find each other since it's a big airport and I didn't have a phone. After a few hiccups we found each other. I can't believe that it's been 10 years since we started the MBA program and Chairman Fu still looks the same. The man does not look 40!
From there we entered Shanghai traffic. It must have taken us near 2 hours to get to Shanghai from the airport. I am amazed at the number of people and cars in Shanghai. Additionally, honking and aggressive driving are the norm. Motor bikes have ultimate power in Shanghai to drive on the street and sidewalk and run reds. The way cars weave in between pedestrians is def a skill! We found our way to this restaurant that serves northeast Chinese style cuisine. The food was familiar, yet foreign and delicious at the same time. The best part was how cheap the food was. It's about 6 rmb to 1 dollar and we might have spent 20 bucks for 5 dishes! BTW in Japan it's 100 yen to the dollar.
Fred capped off the evening by showing me the Bund at night. The Bund is an area right by the river and surrounded by financial and historical buildings. There were so many tourists in that area at night time.
We then drove to Fred's flat in yangshupu district. It's a district that is in transition with many new upscale high-risk flats in development. What's interesting is that many of the locals still live in underdeveloped areas and sell food on the streets, while the rich factory owners from OK provinces outside Shanghai are moving into the luxury flats. It really is fascinating to see two worlds collide.

We ended the evening by going to a local internet cafe at midnight so I can catch the Texas / OU game which was 11 am Texas time. What's unique about the cafe was not the numerous gamers dubbed homeboys there, but rather the scene itself. Everyone smokes and ashtrays do not exist. The floors and keyboards were sticky and filled with ash and it's not uncommon for people to spit on the floor either. I wasn't going to complain since I was able to watch the game...thank you first row sports! Texas beat OU BTW...hook'em! BTW I might have smoked and spat a few times that night too...when in Rome.
October 13
Woke up in the morning and made a run to the convenience store to get some detergent. After two weeks of travel I can tell you the two things I really appreciate and took for granted in the States are showers and washing machines. It's hard to describe the feeling of stepping into a nice hot shower or slipping into clean clothes...it's just a beautiful thing.
For lunch Fred took me to his in-law for lunch. We were fed a great meal of noodles, cauliflower, and pork. I would take home cooked meals over restaurants any day. Afterwards we went to this electronic store off century Ave to get my tablet fixed. The place was like a geek factory with four floors filled with vendors hawking apple products, various mobile phones and any electronics you can imagine. We managed to find a guy who would fix my tablet for 500 rmb or about 80 dollars. I wisely purchased a cover too. I'm still kicking myself for removing my other cover prior to the trip in an effort to save space. Damn!
For the rest of the day we did some sightseeing and had dinner at a cantonese restaurant. The food was pretty good. We had pigeon, beef and something else I forgot. The rest of the night was quiet since Fred went to sleep early since he was leaving the next day to go back to his hometown for work. I would essentially be housesitting. New country, new city, new residence, no prob....
October 14
Before Fred left he made a rough sketch of how to get to the subway station for me. Easy he said....easy for him to say since it's his town and the fact that he can read Chinese. Luckily after navigating through the tokyo subway system, Shanghai wasn't too bad. It's about a 15 minute walk from Fred's flat to yangshupu station. Near the station is a row of street vendors selling various food from xiaolongbao (soup dumplings) to baked scallion pancake. I stopped at the xiaolongbao place and i couldnt believe how good it was and it was less than a dollar for 8...ftw! Every morning I would swing by that place for either xiaolongbao or huntun (small dumpling soup).

I later found my way to the Shanghai rail station to inquire about tickets to Beijing. Along the way I found a tourist center and decided to book a day tour for about 280 rmb. The tour was OK and the only drawback was that it was in mandarin so I had no clue what the guide was saying. She decided to stick me with a family of 6 and told me to just follow them. Although that family didn't speak English, I'm very grateful of their attempts to help me out.
We started the tour at the Shanghai Museum and it was super rushed. Towards the end I was just doing driveby photos...oh well. After that we went up to the TVs Pearl which is a purple genie bottle looking building that has a spectacular view of Shanghai from the observation deck, which was transparent glass and a nightmare for those with a fear of heights. From there we took a boat down the huangpu river. They ended the tour by dropping us off in the bustling Chinatown area...I suppose that in China they just call it town. My new host family was always keeping a watchful eye on me to make sure I wasn't lost or left behind. Oh and they had smoke breaks every hour and kept offering to me. Damn peer pressure I thought I was done with that after middle school. Oh well..when in Rome...
October 15
I decided to go back to the Shanghai Museum and take my time with the art without being rushed. Of highlight are the Clark collection of French Impressionist art, the history of chinese currency, imperial stamps, calligraphy, jade collection, pottery and traditional clothing.
The gloomy dark weather outside was certainly affecting my mood. Along with the fact that my tablet was in the shop and I had no access to internet cafes really cut me off from the life that I left. For the first time on my trip, that lonely homesick feeling crept in and I questioned whether all this was a miscalculated mistake. The previous weeks had been manageable with almost daily calls and skype sessions with Riley but now i was truly alone. Shanghai, imo, can be a very unfriendly city and in contrast with the excessive politeness of Japan, the yelling, shoving and glares certainly felt magnified.
I ventured over to Yu Garden to try out some street food and check out the many shops targeting, or catering, to foreigners. I sampled a few things but nothing too memorable. Of highlight from the Garden was the hustle this orange seller tried to pull on me and this girl who sold grilled octopus because she was friendly and spoke English, which thus far was a rarity.
I capped off the evening by going back to the electronics guy to check on my tablet and luckily the parts had arrived and he was able to fix everything. After that i met this girl Stephanie from couchsurfing for dessert. It was a pleasant meeting with exchanges of American and Chinese cultures. Thus far I have been reluctant to surf a couch but really enjoy meeting new people.